To forgive means not to hate but to love the person who deeply hurt us
I was sexually abused by some of my brothers and their friends
I am no expert on forgiveness, but as someone who agrees with the concept and struggles with the practise, I have noticed one thing. Forgiveness doesn’t seem to be a ‘one time fix’ and by that I mean (to quote Shrek!) it is like an onion. It consists of layers of forgiveness that can be undertaken, fastflirting review but on the resurfacing of anger or bitterness, there can be a need to forgive all over again, and again, and so on. My hope is that as the layers continue to be removed, the process becomes easier!
Unforgiveness can be very demaging to the health. Unforgiveness leads to bitterness which causes many health problems. It is not possible for human beings to truly and fully forgive and love an enemy becos our human’s love is conditional.
